tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14603206.post6950764310292659626..comments2023-04-28T10:53:10.258+01:00Comments on KNITMAN: MEN!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14864658805462324550noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14603206.post-56881614369366001032010-12-09T04:34:03.894+00:002010-12-09T04:34:03.894+00:00Colin, please don't make any decisions when yo...Colin, please don't make any decisions when you're in this state. You need a chance to come back to a solid place before you do anything rash. You love John. He loves you. You have been together long enough to be able to work through your problems. Give yourself some breathing space and time.Yarnhoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06625926254864861603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14603206.post-14265133748927982192010-12-08T21:30:48.533+00:002010-12-08T21:30:48.533+00:00I can only send ((hugs)) and peaceful thoughts/wis...I can only send ((hugs)) and peaceful thoughts/wishes for you as you do your best in this situation.<br /><br />Janaleejanaleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02604615978197495323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14603206.post-91663966783173320002010-12-08T12:48:24.960+00:002010-12-08T12:48:24.960+00:00Georgina is right. You're preparing for a chan...Georgina is right. You're preparing for a change - one that should be a good change - and every change has stress, whether it be good or bad stress. Stress is stress and takes its toll on our thoughts, our bodies, our spirits. You were shocked over the taxes. I've been told it takes a good three years to fully recover from a betrayal, whether it was intentional, or not. You love John and he loves you. You'll weather this together, as you have other things. It makes it far worse that you had such a terrible childhood. It's harder for your than most to accept and love to begin with. Be patient with yourself and your feelings.Irisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14603206.post-62997733084600760142010-12-08T11:27:08.712+00:002010-12-08T11:27:08.712+00:00There is one thing you can do Colin - and that is ...There is one thing you can do Colin - and that is do nothing - yet. You know all about hyper-anxiety, you have blogged about it and it has helped me to hear you talk about it clearly and openly. Sometimes, for a complexity of reasons, everything piles up into one great immovable mountain of fear - but it is an illusion. The trials are real, but the overwhelming fear is not. Wait and be still and your feelings of being loved by John and safe with him will come back and those are real feelings. None of us can stop life in it's tracks, and difficult things will have to be faced, but the panic you express today will pass. You are such a lovely person - I wish I could make you a cup of tea and give you a big hug.Georginahttp://www.rosecolouredworld.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com